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How do I make my girlfriend more comfortable?

this was bothering me and I just wanted to know…

me and my girlfriend arent in the same state right now (long distance) and than the topic phone sex comes up and she constantly changes the subject…I don’t know. she told me she has never done it before..and was scared and nervous…and I didnt exactly know how to tell her how to do it..or really explained..I tried to make her feel comfotable and explain it to her…but im lost… anyways I could make her feel comfotable..and explain things she could do.

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Answer #1

Start by just talking…don’t specify that you will have phone sex on a particular day…just let it happen during the conversation, start by asking if she is alone, then what she is wearing…lol…and how she feels and so on. That way the pressure is off and while you are talking you can start saying things like I wish I could kiss you right now, and let it more and more intense…

Answer #2

umm just giv it a lil tyme an she’ll get more an more confortable…she just takin baby stepz..an every1 has their own pace… hope I helped sweetie =)

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