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How to help my depressed boyfriend?

I told my boyfriend that I got my period so I don’t think I m pregnant and we both havent stopped cryin and he tried to kill his self last night I dont know what to do can you please help me

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Answer #1

this was the second time I had a false alarm and this time he thought that he was going to be a daddy I knew that we had to expect the worse just in case I told him not to get his hopes but he didnt listen he went and got a job and started to save money(which is good) but I had to convince him not to buy a crib until we knew for sure then when he found out he was heartbroken he just kept telling me he felt like something was missin

Answer #2

Dear deeplyinlove, First of all he didn’t try to kill himself because you weren’t pregnant. There is more going on there than that. Be thankful you were not pregnant…you boyfriend is suffering from some sort of psychological problems and ones you really don’t want to have around a child. He is in need of therapy right now. Make sure you speak with his family about getting him the proper help. This can and should be a lengthy process and he will need much time to get back on track. So forget about a child right now and be very thankful you weren’t pregnant. None of this is your fault and I suggest you step back a bit and keep this relationship casual for the time being. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

I don’t know what his deal is. Have you tried to sit down and talk to him? Did ya’ll want a baby?

Answer #4

My opinion is also that you b/f should have been happy, and jumping, and laugh, and all stuff, because of that he did not cause you any problem.

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