He has to pay somehow

I’d have to say that revenge isnt sweet. Its childish in my book! In fact, it will only cause more hurt!

Keep in mind that being revengeful will never do any good to you or to your ex partner who have hurt you so bad. You may think that it is your only outlet to get over him but actually it is not. The more you hate the person, the more you are prolonging your agony.

Move on and get on with your life. Instead of nurturing the hurt that you feel, you should look at the brighter side of life and move on. If you prefer to be a revengeful, your life will be stuck in that anger forever and you will make your life more miserable. Dwelling on that revenge can only stir up the ashes of your own hurt and resentment. Bear in mind that you are causing more harm to yourself than the other person. If you think revenge as getting even, well think again. Why should you want to get even with a loser in the first place?

Forgive and forget. In order to completely move on, you must learn to forgive and you start to forget what happened. The more you hate, the more you add to your misery. So instead of thinking of revenge, just let go, forgive, forget, and move on. Remember that when a door closes, a window opens.