Guys perspective on relationships

usually you see this type of thing in teenagers. girls are naive and stupid, and guys are realistic and horny.

lol domyb88 thats funny yeah I was just wondering because I never hear of a guy with a romantic thinking thing but girls always act like their super slutty or super prude and want to be swept away I think most guys have a realistic idea, but some have a bad way of going about it

yea I think I’d have to agree with the guy above, men dont only want sex, some of us guys want a girl we can look after all the time with or without frequently, the this is nowadays tho is because eerything seems to be getting more and more pornographic in this world when teenagers go thru puberty they tend to get a really high sex drive and that sometimes carrys on through out their lives, but if he can control himself abit better, then he’ll turn out like me or the guy above and not care about having sex all the time.

the only other thing I have to say is, why do girls always blame us guys, you may not realise it but a lot of the time its also because you tease (or thats the way some things come across) and plus a lot of girls have high sex drives too, one of my female friends is like a rabbit, and when she cant find a guy to satisfy her she’ll do it herself nomatter where she is. lol heres 1 story… we were sittin in my room jus watching a comedy film, then out of the blue she says ‘omg im well horny today’ (me and her have been friends too long to do anything with) so anyway we carried on watchin the film, then all of a sudden she has her trousers and underwear round her ankles (u can probly guess what she’s doin) and this is in my room lol, and to top it off (not meaning to sound pervy or anything) she’s a squirter lol.

haha yeah. we don’t trust guys and we laugh at girls in our school who think they’re going to last forever, then they end up getting used and cheated on.

women get the wrong idea that we only want to have sex.

THAT IS NOT TRUE

we just want to be with you, its when you start ASSUMING that we want to have sex that makes things complicated.

Dont get me wrong sex is wonderful, and it can be the only thing a guy wants but for me its probally the least thing I want, I want a girl I can talk to and have a relationship filled with laughter and joy and all that silly corny stuff. As sad as it sounds I’d love to have that.

It is because your instincts take over as puberty progresses in your teenage years. Once all of you get out of puberty 90% of you will get fat, pregnant, and divorced so make the best of it :P Well maybe it’s not that bad but usually the guys that the women go out with are the “cool” ones that speak up but the trophy is the quiet, shy guy in the corner with good grades.

Beautiful girls can often attract b*stards! I’m quite serious about that statement.

I think that you ladies should maybe take that as a compliment!

PS Please spare a thought for those women that are b*tches and play the field and end up causing guys a lot of paid and distressed. It works both ways but I appreciate that you are only looking at it from your point of view ladies.

:)