Why do guys have that whole get the girls number and wait 3 days to call her rule?

They want you to think that they have more important things to do.

Well sometimes it’s because the guy really doesn’t even care, but most of the time the guy wants to seem cool, laid back and like you want him more then he wants you.

Because they have a list of girls to call..

In my opinion..either he forgets or he just doesn’t want to seem desperate or come off as needy. Pretty much what everybody else mentioned earlier ^^^ lol

thats such crap!

Most of the time we do have more important things to do! (jk) Really though, if dude called you right away, and couldn’t wait to see you, you would think less of him. Women don’t want a man that comes running at the drop of a hat. If we drop everything in our lives for you, you begin to resent us because we come off as weak. I would say if a guy calls right away you should be aware, he will probably become your stalker in a few months!

so the guy doesn’t come off as despertate.

i dnt rly use tht most ill use is a day or two

they think that they’re playing hard to get and treating a girl mean keep them kean etc

haha nice answer

they dont want to sound desperate or they lost it

i know this is an older post, but honestly, its not a cool or laid back thing and its not that he just doesn’t care. For me it was that i had to diggest what was going on. so many questions run through my head. Do i wanna date? do i wanna go out on a date? do i wanna talk to her for real? whut’s she like? will she hate me? sometimes it just takes a little nerve to get going. You never see girls calling guys :P its just pressure… but yes there are still dic|{s that don’t care. Not all guy are dic|{s, but all guys have dic|{s.

We really can’t seem to clingy or the girl very well may loose interest. Also it is the social convention.