Why does a girl get called a slut and it doesn't matter for a guy?

yeah it’s stupid, I’ve heard guys that were 14 saying I had this girl last night she screamed so loud my parents nearly heard, if a girl said anything like that she’d be branded a slut!

Mainly because people like to think of girls are “pure”, “innocent”, and “virginal”. It’s been like that since the beginning of time. Men are praised for the sexual conquest, while women are condenmed for theirs. It’s definatly not right, I mean after all, for those men to have their numbers, they have to be sleeping with women, which would mean the women’s numbers go up as well. Me and my fiance both have our own sexual pasts. He brags about his, I keep mine to myself. Mainly because that’s how society works, if you dont want to be labeled a slut, you have to hide or not flaunt your past.

O_o it is said that men rule the world, men make the rules, females are lower beings etc. etc.

thats why woman can be called sluts, because they are lower than the males and so it makes them so to say ‘usable’ and how many times an item is used by different hands makes it of worse condition, hence the slut (this is a crude example but its how it is)

you must understand I used that as an example and not to offend anyone, I personally dont like both male and female “sluts” as youd call em…

Exactly. Hell I’ve had a baby. A whole human being came out of my vagina! Guess what, it went right back to normal (my fiance actually says it got tighter) That’s what kegal excersizes are for! They can work wonders. It’s a muscle, it can be worked out and tightened.

I agree - And I know for a fact those muscles can go back to place even if someone did become loose. I myself have a problem with automatically squeezing those muscles all of the time so besides child birth, I’ll never be loose. Doesn’t say anything about how many people I’ve slept with.

“Also becuase a girl can (sopposibly) become a lot more loose when sleeping with a variety of male partners” That’s my favorite female myths ever. Sleeping around with people does not change the size of your vagina. It’s a muscle and it’s meant to stretch for sexual intercourse and having children. Why is that people think your loose if you sleep around, but they dont think your loose if your having sex with the same person every day. Doesn’t make sense now does it?

Thank goodness I don’t have a past but my best friend is going through a lot of problems about it lately, she’s in college so she’s having trouble with a lot of people. I’m sure you could imagine.