Why did he break up with me?

okay so here the thing, me and my boyfriend were going out for a while and his friends constantly asked me to get with him. but the thing is he always had basketball and he never had time to hang like that anyway. for thursday night me and him were talking on the phone, like we do almost every night. we talked about plans that we had to hang like all weekend, christmas and my birthday, I really thought things were going to turn out good. but one of the best parts is one of my best friends was dating one of his close friends, I thought it was pretty much perfect. so it surprised me when my best friend I/med me saying her boyfriend dumped her. I told mine about it and not soon after he asked me if we could “just be friends”. when I asked him why he said “he just doesn’t want to girlfriend right now”. then that night I told our friend I still liked him and I would probably get with him still, and then he was like “I don’t know I still kinda like her.. I don’t know”. do you think thats the actual reason he broke up with me? any insight?

please don’t give negative comments either. thanks in advance:)

Answer #1

Sounds like the two guys planned it like that, which was a really unfair thing to do to you and your friend! You guys didn’t do anything wrong… but, it was probably for the best, cause it sounds like neither one of them is mature enough to be in a relationship anyway! You and your friend should just rely on each other for support and have a girls’ night (those are sooo fun!)! Once you feel a little better about the situation, go find you a new guy, I’m sure there is someone else you like, and start hanging out with him and forget about that other loser! Hope things get better for you!

Answer #2

since he cares about what his friend thinks than his own feeling, then he doesnt know what he wants yet. he doesnt truely love you. So, move on and find a better guy.

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