Grandpa troubles

I really dont get along with my grandpa I think he hates me and im not a mean person I only see him four or five times a year but hes always yelling at me even if I didnt do something last year on christmas eve I needed to talk to my mom really bad about something he said shut the hell up and leave her alone and I wasnt doing anything I said f*ck off then he slaped me then we started to fight I had to grab a knife to get away.I have 30 first cousins and nine second cousins one time he asked me ehy I couldn be like my cousin who is white,blonde,skinny,smart,pretty me im black and mexican(I was adopted)fat,im a c student and a bit of a rebel. I just dont see why he cant love me like the rest it makes me think im ugly and not good enough for him

Answer #1

Old people… sometimes you really cant do anything about them. My grandfather doesnt like me too much (he prefers boys) but I really dont care. Who cares what he thinks? It doesnt make it true…

Answer #2

Sorry about the trouble your having…some people are not nice at all…remember there is nothing wrong with you…you don’t have to be white, blonde,skinny or pretty…just be who God made you.. Old people can be stubborn and rude. Why is the old man yelling…does he yell at anyone else? Try to stay out of his way when you are near him… Be respectful…saying f..ck off probably not a good idea…anyway …remember your manners…try to get on his good side…he probably wants to see you more productive…at school…etc…do your best…

rebellion isn’t necessarily bad…it’s what are you rebelling about? All I can say is Do your best…you can’t make people like you but you can stand up for what is right… do you know the difference from right and wrong… read the bible…hope this helps…

Answer #3

Well can you talk to him about how you feel? If you can’t sometimes the best thing to do for someone who is being an a-hole si to be sugary nice to them, you heard the expression {kill them with kindness}, that’s what I mean. I have an acid relationship with my relative too, but I stay overly nice and they either avoid me or treat me cordially. If he does’nt accept you because you are adopted , foster child or mixed race then chalk it up to years of ignorance on his side and you will never be able to change that, just realize there are some people you cannot change all you can do is be the best person you can and pray for them. Good Luck

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