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Got anymore advice for me and my girlfriend? Please, please help.

Hey, I just thought I would point this out because I just can’t get to it… Here’s is some words that me and my girlfriend said on MSN messenger.

Me - I’ve been in a weird mood lately. girlfriend - I’ve been in a weird mood lately too. Me - Does it have anything to do with me? girlfriend - I don’t know. girlfriend - Don’t ask me shit like that! ME - Sure

That’s what was said tonight, it was very disturbing and I want to tell her something like this “Hey seriously, if you can’t be considerate for my feelings like I have been for yours everyday of my life, then we don’t need to be together or everything we ever were would have been nothing.” but I can’t, I am to soft-hearted to be mean verbally, and my soft hearted self is vulnerable to verbal hostility and it builds on my anger issue, but I wouldn’t hit her, nor any other girl, ever. Do you have any idea how I should tell her something that wouldn’t be to hard on her?

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Answer #1

im sorry to hear you broke up. maybe your both better off alone becos you sounded so stressed with her. let me know if you need to talk ok.

Answer #2

We broke up and decided to remain friends, she acted like that because she was stressed out and had the idea of breaking up with me. Thus what I said made her even more nervous.

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Answer #3

yes you say “look you know i consider your feelings but i dont think you consider mine. you cant say something like ive been in a weird mood and you dont no if its bout me or not and then when i ask you to explain you get defensive it doesnt work that way, you have freaked me out by saying your moody maybe becos of me and i need to no why!” something along those lines becos she cant give you mixed signals and then expect you to not react and worry about what she is trying to say.

Answer #4

you seem like a really sweet guy and thats a good thing but i know its hard to tell someone you love or like very much something like that. I write a letter when i feel my boyfriend doesn’t care about me and than i drop it off at his house. It helps me get those angry feelings out. I know from experience that if she really loves you than her tone doesn’t show through the instant message screen. So you have to ask her in person because that why she maybe can explain it to you better. I hope it works out for you because you seem to really care about her.

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