Good Friend Gone Bad

okay this is long, but i want your opinion…

a while ago my best friend met another girl and they became fast friends. since then that girl who shall remain nameless has been turning my best friend into a nightmare. she used to be really cool and we could laugh about stuff and talk about our problems, you know … girl stuff. anyways now all she wants to do is talk about herself and her problems. for instance, today i had to sit in the library and watch her shop for bathing suits online + she is always bragging to me about how her other friend is always out with guys and how she is going to set her up with another guy who she met once while he was driving her home … high on drugs going about 60 miles per hour according to her. she’s also become so self-centered. today another one of my friends was telling me how she got her heart broken from a boy who told her he couldn’t take her to the prom. when i told my bf she said “well i can see why he didn’t take her.” as if to say she’s to ugly to be asked. i felt so bad for my other friend because she is beatiful but quiet, but because shes not popular and a druggy she is labled as “unfit” for this other guy.

sorry i know this is long but i don’t know what to do with my bf. shes turning into a monster.

Answer #1

I would definitely confront her about it. Even if it’s not your in your nature to be mean, you need to let her know that she is no better than she was before she started hanging with this “friend” of hers and she is the same person after. And making fun of people and doing illegal things are not cool. She may be under pressure and she might notice she is acting different but trys to play it cool. She knows what she’s doing but she’s is doing it to please others. Don’t tell her that her friends are bad influence because that will anger her and probably push her even farther away. Just explain how you feel about the situation. If she does get defensive, let her learn from her mistkes. Later she will find who her true friends are.

Answer #2

Ok. I don’t think that you should let her just walk away. I think that you should tell her that you need to talk to her in person and tell her it is really important. You just need to sit down and talk to her about what you are feeling and try not to let it ruin yall’s relationship as best friends. You should tell her that you don’t think that it is right for her to be doing all of that, and whatever else you want to tell her. Just be a friend to her.

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