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How to get over a really good friend?

I just lost my best friend of 5 years over a fight I started going out with another one of her ex boyfriends and she said she was happy for me and didn’t care and stuff But then she just started yelling at me told me to shut up Now she is talking all this crap to her friends of how bad of friend im And she’s flirting with my ex and told him all of my secrets! How do I get over this? There’s so much pain inside of me right now I feel like I just got tossed outside and pushed to the ground with needles pushing inside of me It’s really hard to deal with this I want to be her friend so badly but she plays so much games with me She was the only friend I ever had and now she’s gone Usually when we get into fights we make up The thing is she never calls me, or anything I have always been the one to do that, what I don’t get is why do I always try to be her friend? What do I do? Please help?

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Honestly, you did it to yourself though, there is no reason to be mad at her. He betrayed her friendship when you dated her ex-boyfriends. I dont care what girl says that it’s allright - you should have known better and known that it could have hurt her.

Just move on. She obviously doesn’t want to repair the friendship right now and you can’t make her be your friend. All you can do is apologize and let her make up her own mind about what she wants to do.

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