Giving her pleasure

Okay so, I’ve fingered her twice now, and I don’t know if she is getting enough pleasure because I don’t know if she likes it. She is very quiet and doesn’t like to give off signals that she likes it, but very rarely she’ll moan, but it’ll only happen like once in the fingering. I’d ask her to tell me where she likes it, but I’m afraid it would ruin the intimacy, and I’d like to ask her to tell me how she likes it done, but it’s never happened to her before and she doesn’t masturbate, so I’m in the dark here, any thoughts?

Answer #1

I would probably be a bit like her so heres my guess she like it because she probably wouldnt be letting you do it if she didnt! secondly you’ll know my her body language if shes kinda stand offish then shes not enjoying but you should try different things and see her different reactions

Answer #2

if your comfortable enough to be doing stuff, ask her what she likes- or if she enjoys it. you dont have to ask her while your doing it.. ask her on the phone.. I promise.. girls dont get offended when you ask- or at least I wouldn’t. I’d think it was nice that they cared.

Answer #3

Well, firstly while you are fingering her, look at her to see if there is discomfort in her expressions. I think it is better to ask her what she prefers, or even try different things, and then ask her if she likes that better. You have to have confidence in yourself to be able to pleasure a women. Just explain to her how you feel.

Also, maybe consider since she doesnt masurbae and you have only done it twice. Relax, shes probably nervous herself with letting her true enjoyment show. Just give it time and it will all come together.

Goodluck BUD!

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