Girlfriend has Sexual Virus

I’m 28 years old I don’t know much about sexual sickness stuff. My girlfriend for 4and a half years has STD or aids (I don’t know if that’s the same thing); I still love her even if she has this virus. I have been thinking about marrying her even if my family don’t agree, she’s the strongest women I know besides my mother. She’s afraid that she’ll get me infected, so we haven’t done anything yet? All I know about this is to wear a condom to have sex, is it really that simple? Can I kiss her? have anal or oral sex? What can I do and what cant I do? How do I have a sexual relationship with her without getting infected? Who has experience with this problem? (Your spouse has this virus).

Answer #1

AIDS is an STD all its own (although, they’re starting to call them “STVs” now. Sexually Transmitted Viruses instead of Diseases), but are you sure that’s what it is? Has she ever been tested or she just speculating? If not, I’d take her to the doctor to get bloodwork done to test for any STDs including HIV and AIDS. A lot of times a person may think they have something, when in actuallity they don’t. Get a test done. Just to be on the safe side. You don’t want AIDS, HIV, or any STD for that matter. They’re all unpleasant and some are deadly (AIDS, HIV, Syphilis). Don’t want any. Some, like Genital Herpes, are commonly referred to as “the gift that keeps on giving” because it goes away and comes back numerous times (up to as many as 5-7 times in the first year of infection) to keep irritating you. Some, like AIDS or HIV, just take. They break down your immune system to the point where, eventually, the common cold can kill you.

Really the only way to be COMPLETELY protected is to not do anything. But if you want to have sex of any kind, use a condom. If you’re really afraid, use two. That way if one breaks, you still got another. Doesn’t matter if it’s vaginal or anal sex, use a condom. That’s the best (and currently only) protection available.

Any other questions, ask your doctor. That’s the best help I can give right now.

Good luck.

Answer #2

Good commment from amanwithalotofanswers except for the advice to use two condoms for extra safety. NEVER DO THIS!

Never use more than one condom. They are designed to rub against flesh not agains another condom.

If you use two condoms at the same time there is a very high chance that one or both witll split due to the friction of latex against latex.

Kiasu

Answer #3

umm, sorry but I disagree with your statement of using 2 condoms.. NEVER use more than one at a time. its dangerous, and its not going to offer any more protection than one would. and if she has been tested and knows for sure she has an STD, if youve been sexually active before with her, you probably already have it. it can take some time before a STD will show up on a test. and even tho its not showing up on a test, she still has it and it is contagious. my advise is to make sure shes been checked by a dr, get yourself tested. and use a condom. ONE CONDOM, NOT TWO! ask a dr about what ever she/you have just to understand whats going on.. or google any information.. keep in mind everything online isnt always true. so asking a dr is best idea

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