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Girlfriend broke up with me 11/15/09

So my girlfriend (1 year) who We both are divorced have two kids each brike up with me. I knwo exactly why. I acted insecure with her, questioned her about other guys, and and past relationships. wanted her to tell me she loved me more etc… In hindsight I didnt need it, she did all of the right things I just looked for problems and pushed her away. I lived with her 3 days a week, it is hard.

We have talked for two hours each day, and I think she is realizing that I am changing, and that I won’t do those things anymore and that was our only problem, but that it caused problems in all parts of our relationship. She loves me, and Is giving me signs that I can get her back. I was gonna give her space, but she seems to enjoy the signs that I am trying, sending her songs, emails, talkign to her about how I was wrong. What should I do???

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well yes there is nothing more irritating then someone nagging you all the time about things like past relationships and stuff especially since shes not cheating on you. I would show up one night and surprise her ^ ^. tell her again how wrong you were and youd like her back and tell her why you were acting that way. maybe in the past you were cheated on? or maybe it is something else. tell her you understand why she is mad and then tell her your door is always open for her if she wants you back too. then give her some space and let her think it out … who knows maybe shell tell you her answer right then but if not she needs space. and dont nag her about it either. tell her that your going to give her space and if she is intrested in getting back together or just being friends then to call you with her decision. I am only telling you this advice because I believe that you can change. but if you dont change and keep bothering her then this is going to happen all over again and I dont think the next time it will work. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

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