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Gettin Sidetracked Bcoz Of Stupid People And Problem

my 4ends mother has never made it a secret 4 me and him to start datin each other.not that I dont like him or any thin but he doesn’t have any sex appeal to flush a toilet!!!n besides I’m enterin a crucial yesr of my education,I don want to get sidetracked.n we both date people who are totally different.I used to just shut up and take it when his mom used to start on my case but of lately she has started bcomin more suggestive.our famimlies are good friends, once when she came over she asked me blatantly on my face if I wanted her son over.I wuz like so mad.its not as if I don like her son or anythin but things are really gettin very stupid.instead of doin somethin I’m suppposed to do I think about what people wud think if me and him started goin out.he’s also been givin me the cold shoulder,and yeah, his mom and him are vry close.please I need help and fast. 4m both guys and girls.god bless the person who gives me a proper answer. thanks so much

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First and foremost, don’t let others pressure you into something that you don’t want or need. You sound like a well put together girl, and you should know what is best for you right now. You are not a drug addict who needs to be forced to get help. You are girl with more than enough on her plate without others trying to tell you who to date. If this guy is realy a friend, he will understand if you tell him that you just don’t want to get sidetracked from reaching your goals, and that people pressuring you into something just pushes you farther away. Ask him to ask his mom to stop trying to set the two of you up. Ask her yourself if it continues. If niether of them can respect you enough to stop trying to control your choices, then remove yourself from the stressful situation, and consider his cold shoulder a gift: You no longer have to put up with his cr@p, and it makes it easier to ignore him.

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