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Friendship is ruined

I have a really gud friend and now she hates me. I read her notebook w/o her knowing or permission. She found out from someone else. I wanted to tell her but I didnt know how yet. But I have a reason. I had a friend who wrote in her notebook that she was going to kill herself…I read it and then told some one who can help her and she is fine. I didnt want this same thing to happen. What if she was going through tha same thing and all of a sudden she just I don’t know killed herself or did something badd…I would feel sooo quilty..I don’t know how to explain that to her…it sounds stupid but its serious…I don’t know what to do to get her friendship back!!!

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Answer #1

explain what you wrote here to her. tell her that you really value her friendship and that you were concerned, and apologize, she might not forgive you right away, b/c you have to gain her trust back… give her some time, but let her know that you’re still here for her

Answer #2

Umm.. Not to be rude or anything but if she was really your “friend” then she would look right pass something like this for you.

Answer #3

Speaking as someone on the other end, it really doesnt seem like a good enough reason to invade her privacy… If you were concerned then you should have talked to her instead of reading her notebook… I really wouldnt try and justify yourself. Admit you screwed up. You made a mistake. You had good intentions, but it didnt justify your actions. You’re very sorry and you value her friendship. Give it some time. She may come around.

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