Friend committing suicide...?

Sounds a lot like he’s trying to manipulate you into being so distraught over his words and “disappearance” that you will admit that you love him to. I don’t know how many people I know who have had this done to them. My 13 year old went through it this past Halloween. Had me driving around town at 3 am looking at the places this person said they were going to jump from. First it was Macy’s and then the George Sellar bridge. Drama…sounds as if he is doing the same to u. But, just to ease your nerves you could do as amblessed suggestted—have the local police do a wellness (or welfare) check. Good luck dealing with this.

I don’t think your friend will try to kill himself. I think he just need’s time to get through this. He must have been holding onto these feelings for a long time. I know it’s hard to wait to contact a friend you care so much for, but sometimes all we need is time to ourselves. To figure it all out. I’m sure your friend will get back in contact with you.

Do you know his house number? Maybe you can speak with to his family as a concerned friend?

If you know his address, you can call the Police and ask them to drop by for a ‘welfare check’ to make sure he’s ok and get back to you - he’s probably being dramatic, that’s all.

Girl if he is scaring you then don’t talk to him but if you can then get to like the bottom of it and see whats going on