How can I deal with my discomfort around my boyfriend's sister? (read more)

So my boyfriend (caleb), he has a 24 year old sister (heather) and I dont like her. Shes very flashy flashy.. With her boob job, wearing low cut tank tops.. She is 4”11 and I feel so akward cause im 5”3.. And heather tells her mom that “casey is the perfect 10. Big lips, big butt, curves, everything”. And heather wants a little sister.. But shes to flashy with her looks. She a bar tender at a place called coyote ugly.. But she notice that I did not like her.. She asked her mom does casey not like me? well she wants me to go to her house for dinner but im super uncomfortable with her. How can I fix this? I want to make my boyfriend happy. But I cant change my views on her. Cause I think im always going to dislike her.. Shes not my caliber of person.

Answer #1

Well we each have to deal with people we don’t like, and sometimes its unavoidable, you cannot really make caleb choose between his sister and you nor is it possible for you to avoid her forever…. just close your eyes and dive in… if it makes you feel better, i’m also in the same situation, but my problem is made up of 2 people(her father and her sister) , who are too ignorant and stuck up, and whats worse is i have to deal with them nearly every day and they do call me for dinner like 4 times a week, and whats worse they don’t take no for an answer, seriously i have to make up s­hit to not do things with them (and im getting sick of it) oh and the nail to close the coffin? I made them like me too much, oh and they are conservative believers and im a liberal atheist and they have no idea because i avoid religious conversations (as i’m afraid ill hurt their feelings too much with the truth :P)

Answer #2

Just go, smile, be courteous….you won’t see her that often and it keeps the peace…

Answer #3

Well it sounds like your judging her based on what’s on the surface and maybe that’s all there is to her. But just maybe there might be something deeper about her you don’t know. As Niky said, go, smile, be polite and keep an open mind, setting aside your judgements till you can determine if there is or isn’t something deeper about her you can relate to. If she works for Coyote Ugly it’s all about looks and flash and she has to be able to carry it with confidence. But maybe there is another side to her if you can get passed all that. If not it is what it is, but maybe there is something your not seeing that can make your views of her more tolerable.

Answer #4

Just be nice don’t let her notice you don’t like her and hey you may end up liking her don’t judge a book by its cover… My mom is like 45? Lol n she’s just like that girl she has fake boobs n wears low cut shirts n shes a mom… She’s super cool though. just give her a chance and get to know her more or at least Learn to deal with her.

Answer #5

You don’t have to like her just go to the dinner thing & she seems nice maybe you’d like her personality.

Answer #6

Thank you:)

Answer #7

Tell her to stop showing off and being so stuck-up and then maybe you’ll like her.

Answer #8

Tell her to stop showing off and being so stuck-up and then maybe you’ll like her.

Answer #9

Tell her to stop showing off and being so stuck-up and then maybe you’ll like her.

Answer #10

just sit her down and talk to her and ask her what she dont like about you then try and improve on it and reason with her nd try and get a convo going with her,this will gain her trust, you never know u and her might be very similar in some ways :) also you should try and get to know his family so shes influenced a good impression on you x

Answer #11

I know his family very well. Just not her cause everytime they invite me and she is coming I dont go cause her boobs are flopping everywhere.

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