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He said he felt good about me but I'm confused?

Ok we met online, we hit it off, and then he distant himself so I did too, coz I’m not the one to be there when he’s not. He knows that I’m a strong independent lady, because he told me. Anyways, we started texting again, he this time said that he felt good about me, I know guys are simple and if he said that, that means he did, but why won’t he ask me out again? I told him I felt good about him too….. So it’s not like I’m giving him mix signals, I’ve flirted and everything, I don’t get it, oh and he has a child, I don’t know if that has anything to do with it, I don’t care about that, I Luv that he has custody…..

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Answer #1

He is afraid to ‘spoil things up’. There are some of my friends who are that way, they just wouldn’t ask their crushes out not no matter how hard the crush reciprocates back interest. I think you should ask him out or else you might have to wait forever.

–Andrew

Answer #2

Sometimes men are to afraid to commit and become too attached. Men tend to want their space and need alone time and he may just have something that he is going through. But don’t wait forever, ask him out.

Answer #3

Thanks I will

Answer #4

Thanks I will

Answer #5

Hi,

I think you should let him come to you. It sounds like you have been consistent based on your attraction towards him and he seems to have mixed feelings. And those mixed feelings can come from many different sources his child, his state of mind etc... Which is fine but you should look out for you. Is he considering the confusion he is placing on you?

In a relationship consistency is important, and you don’t want to give him the leeway to one day be there and the next day to not. Try to talk to him talk about you and your feelings before you ask him out. You are what’s important too.

Kudos on being a strong independent woman!

Good Luck

Answer #6

Thank u! He actually asked me out! Didn’t think he would but now I will wait and I am super careful with my feelings, thank u tho for response! Made me think about it!

Answer #7

Thank u thank u thank u! He asked me out finally!

Answer #8

Thank u thank u thank u! Excited he asked me out finally!!

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