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My brother is a grown man and has threaten me many times and he has beaten me us once. So I keep Military Knife and steel bat in my room close to my door. Just in case. Sometimes I feel bad but I know I might need it. My dad works out of town and my mom is at church 3 days out of the week and doesn't get home till 5:00. I don't like him because his lazy, eats everything in the house like he's the only one that lives here. We'll buy a gallon if juice and it will be gone in like three days, my & I might not even get any. He sleeps during the day and walks around at night waking me and my mom up. He lyed to grandparents about having a job. My grandfather doesnt even remember him because he never vists him and he has a car. He's always asking for money. When I clean up the kitchen its dirty when I wake up at six in the morning to get ready for school, when I vacuum the carpet has shxt already on it the next day. I hardly hear the water running so he hardly washs plus he doesn't wash he clothes. Therefor when he opens his door he just stinks up the house! We have to scream at him just to do the yard and take out the trash. If my dad was NONE this would be happening, and my brother knows that. If my dad was here and he saw all the shxt he does this boy would have gotten the messed slapped out of him and gotten kicked out the house. My parents have given you every tool to go out in the world an be successful, but for some reason you want to stay home and make my mom's life a living hell and beat up on me?
He doesn't drink or smoke. He is just a piece of sht, and he knows what he's doing, it's just a matter of time he gets kicked out. When you catch him doing something , he wants to say "Oh Well I didn't know" or "Well excuse me" Bich get out my f**king face with that. Half of your front teeth are missing (like a said he harldy takes showers so he hardly takes care of his teeht and he is too old to be under the famliy dentinal plan" Last week we were arguing because my mom had picked up some food b/c she wasn't going to cook tonight. (she was going to church) He takes the WHOLE plate downstaris with him. Then he got mad at me because I told to put it back and take some out and put it on a differeant plate. Don't eat out the plate that's for the whole family. Then he started pointing a metal fork in my face & yelling at me. I told he to get it out my face, then he started cussin at me & he said "Amber you really don't want to fight me". That's why I don't feel safe around him it's obvious that he doesn't mind beating me up. Im only 5'0 and 109 pounds, he's a grown ass man. But the real issuse is college. This boy was out of high school in 2006 it's 2011. Im in 10th so I only have 2 years left before I go off to college. This dummass didn't want to go to college, he wanted to take the easy way out and be a singer. So my parents payed for singing lesson, I rembmer wasting summers so we could drive his black ass to showcases across the country! He wasted a year meeting up with produtives that were "suppose to sign him". 5 years wasted, he could have been out of college but he doesn't want to study and wants everything handed to him that's just not going to work. My dad made him sign up for college and this is when he had the money to sent him to college. He only got through one season then he quit. He said "he wasn't really in to what he was studying" when he's the one that picked it out! Now he's saying he wants to be a pastrie chife. How can you be a chife when you can't even keep a kitchean let alone your own room clean? Well it's too late now because dad said he won't pay for college to sent his ungreatfull ass to college because he's saving up for me. They know I want to go to college, i'm not trying to sit up in this house at 25 years old and still not knowing what to do with my self. I'm just tried, becuase their is nothing I can do. My parents won't listen to me. They don't want their "Son" (what kind of son acts like this) to be out on the street. If it was up to me his ass would have been out the door a long time ago & disowned. Your getting in the way of my success.
Hey,as a friend,my advice for you is,it's not even safe living with him,he threated you,that's bad,and dad must know what's going on,sons can't be afraid of mothers,so dad must make this thing work,because your brother,unlike you,sounds bad person.sh!t on carpet,eating drinking everything,lying about doing job,giving your mom hard time,You and your mom must convince your dad to make a visit,and it must be a suprise so your dad can catch him red handed.this is not normal situation,he threataned you many times,i would tell cops,wish you all the best!
Yes you had better get rid of that brother as soon as possible. Convince your mother to get police help to keep him out of the house. Otherwise, under some notorious drug, he will kill you and your mother will lose the last hope in her life. If your mother does not agree to kick him out, just leave the house for some time and try to estabilish yourself. that way, you will be able to raise some at least for your mother. If you keep on living with him, you will never be able to raise a single penny.
My dad vists Alot. And we took my brother on a family vacation and I think he got the picture of what he does. I over heard my parents and he said he was looking for a job in south Carolina now. Either way my parents aren't happy and neither am I. That boy is gonna push his luck too far.
if you are feeling threatened by your brother you have every right to take reasonable measures to protect yourself
