Why do I feel insecure and worried about my bf?

I know I can’t control him, nor do I wish to or change him. But He’s always told me that he’;ll never leave me but I think I’m going too far with this stress. Besides, I also try hanging out with his friends…not really helpful considering I’m a quiet person, somewhat anti-social at points whenever they talk or whatever. For him to see his friends ofte and I rarel ever see mine, it seems as if he sees them way too much than myself. Well for now at least, another thing that bothers me and triggers my emotions, however.

Is there a reason as to why you guys aren’t hanging out with that group of friends together? Maybe that would alleviate some of your fears? To see what goes on when he’s hanging out with them and stuff…worth a try. Besides that, I’m interested to know where this fear of yours originates from.

There is nothing in the world that will send a guy running than being insecure and clingy. Try to stop thinking so much about him and start working on yourself looking for happiness within you. Surround yourself with positive people and BE SURE you have a life separate from his. Know your self worth and believe that you are a wonderful person worthy of love. If this is the right person for you, there will be no need to worry. If he is not…learn to love yourself and move on. There are PLENTY of good guys out there!