Why do I feel so emotionally numb?

Thank you.. it’s hard because he lives about an hour away.. he used to come over everyday and now it seems like he doesn’t really try to anymore.. he’ll come over maybe twice a week. And on saturday he’s leaving for two weeks so I’m hoping I can see him and talk to him about it before that. =(

hmm, seems like from what you are saying he is giving you the cold shoulder…in all honesty I hate to say this, but that is clearly a message that its heading in one direction…he is only stalling now!

Lets look at the facts…he tried before, now he isnt as much…when a guys stops trying or caring that means he is stalling the inevitable! Prepare yourself for the breakup before he leaves…or he just might hold off on it til he comes back with bad news about meeting someone while he was away!

If he is treating you like this, he really isnt worth your time…you can do much better then that & you so deserve much better then that! You deserve to be treated like a queen, if he isnt willing to put in the time & effort then I would kick his butt out to the curb before he even has a chance to kick you out!

in any case…I wish you luck my dear…break ups arent easy but you have us here to back you up & keep ya strong! ♥

The above is not always true. Yes guys try hard when the first meet you because they want you all to themselves. Once you have been dating a while things get more comfortable and he wont try as hard. Thats how relationships go…it doesnt hurt to mention to him that you would like more attention though. Just talk to him and find out whats really going on.