How can I feel more confident about myself?

I have always been shy and insecure about myself. I constantly worry that my boyfriend will not like the way I look, and my body. I love him, and i do know that he loves me too. We are both young but we do have hopes that in the future wecan be married. But even now i constantly am afraid that he will hate how i look. I know i don’t have extraordinary looks, and well, according to society I don’t have the ideal figure. I’m pretty flat and skinny, but I constantly feel that i have to lose more weight while knowing i am underweight, because i feel that my slightness is the only thing i got. I know that it is personality and what is inside that counts, but yet i still constantly worry over these things.

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Answer #1

well guys dont really care how you look , just dont ask them about how you look a lot of times because us guys love or girlfriends/wives no matter what . :)

Answer #2

False: guys care a lot about looks. Unless they’re not assholes that is…

Answer #3

i know guys really care about looks! love really help them get a bit blind, but they do care a lot, (even if they themselfs dont take care of their looks) anyway, girl…. the magic word is confidence.. you can be a 3eyed bitch and bould, if u hav confidence you have all >D (mens included).

so what works 4 me to get more confidence… 1-going to the shops and trying all kinds of clothers, posing to the mirror, and styling my hair. 2-SALON 3 at the person! cinical/little evil smile is a great weapon!

even if you dont think you´re pretty right now, doing little things for yourself helps a lot! and if you´re skinny, HELL abuse of this dear!

Answer #4

Take pictures of yourself in front of the mirror, like cameronharvey15 apparently likes to do.

Answer #5

yeah but i mean u dont have to overdue it

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