Why do I feel attracted to men?

18 is a very typical age to start feeling things like this. Some even know earlier. Some later. But, my suggestion to you would be experiemnt with the feelings you have. If you have an attraction to a certain male, and he likes males as well, ask him on a date or even just to grab a bite to eat. Just something to know for sure your feelings are true and not just a “faze”. Good luck to you.

I know that feeling. A couple months (about 11) after I turned 18 I became bisexual. So if you do it’s not bad it’s just what you were destined to be. Whatever happens you should be happy with it because if your not it isn’t suppose to happen.

Before jumping to conclusions I would search for the “source” of the attraction. Is it actually sexual or some other kind of “attraction” meaning that you just like them and want to spent time with them. You may, or may not be gay is what I’m saying. Search your feelings and fiqure out what they are.

An afterthought: Before anyone starts jumping me because I’m not gay. I really like the company of men, especially older than me. Why? Because I never had a father and maybe I secretly seek some kind of approval that I never had. I like being around men my age also for comradery and conversation including the sharing of feelings believe it or not. Even though I’m as straight as the day is long and love women (too much), I could say that I’m attracted to the “company” of men. Figure out what your thinking before you asign yourself a certain way is all I’m saying.

It depends. There are hundred of types of homo/bisexuality, first you have to evaluate exactly how you feel attracted to men. So this is will quite generalized. I’d like to note that not all homo/bisexuals have these feelings or views.

Bi-romantics like being looked after and romanced by the same sex. Bi-curious people are curious about the opposite sex, often thinking on whether they could be bisexual. During a bi-curious stage they often focus on whether they are in fact attracted to the same sex at all. Bisexuals are attracted to and/or fall in love and/or have sex with men and women (often at different times aha xD) Homosexuals are attracted to and/or fall in love with and/or have sex with those of the same sex.

Just don’t worry, you don’t have to label yourself or put yourself in a box. After all, “it isn’t about who you are attracted to ultimately, it’s about who you fall in love with”.

Don’t just assume you’re homosexual because it could just be hormones. Even when you’re older you could still be hormonal. You could be just growing. Give yourself sometime to think about it because if you declare your sexuality too fast, you might want to change it later and that would be a hard adjustment.

you are gay :)

you are gay :)

In my personal opinion - I think everyone is somewhat attracted to their own sex