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Why am I attracted to older men?

Hi I’m 17 and yehh I’m attracted to older men, why is that? I look at lads and think there fit but nothing more but then I see an older man which I am attracted to I can kinda imagine what it would be like… I have felt this way now for a long time about 2 years. I have a father around me

Is this some sort of sign

Please help x

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Answer #1

Girl, there is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men. I had this sammme fantasy for a long time, and then once I was with a older man(32) when I was 19 and it was amazing…he was well experienced in bed, he was experienced in romance and love…he was one of the best guys I ever dated. Why we broke up I won’t go into that, but now that I am 21 I am dating a 29 soon to be 30 year old and he’s just as awesome. They don’t play games, at that point in time they have had their fair share of one night stands and mind games. (most men in their late 20’s to mid 30’s don’t ever look old either), but I even find older men with gray hair attractive. I don’t have daddy issue’s either…it’s just taste. I like stable men, who have transportation, a job, etc. That could definately be a lot of reasons why you do the same thing.

Answer #2

Don’t listen to anyone…you can be attracted to whoever you want, naturally you are going to be anyway, just be wise about who your date and give your heart/body to.

Answer #3

this is a big problem!! you shouldn’t be getting attracted to older men…itx probably cux he looks mature and more handsome then the boys your age but stop this attraction itx not good!!

Answer #4

I like a 16yr old and im 13 its okay its not weird or anything..=) you like more muture guys.

Answer #5

It probably just means you like more mature men. Tha’s a good thing. Teen boys can b such pigs. Just make sure you don’t get with anyone over like 25. Meybe evn like 26 would be ok. :)

Answer #6

hey, im 21 and my girlfriend is 17 its not weird just make sure if you do like older guys dont go for a jerk

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