family advice . . . my sister

okay . . .

my family and I are going to have a reunion,

my eldest sister crystal is always talkin shi+ about me

as in . . . “ you are the reason our brother died”

and . . . our family would have been better without you

and, . . .no wonder youre gay, not like any male would ever like you

she makes me want to curl up and die

and the worst part is that my mother will hear all this and not say a word,

I try soo hard to impress her but nothing works. .

I mean I look up to her in some way and she puts me down but its like I keep wanting more

any help?!

Answer #1

Hun you know how I feel about all this im sorry to hear that , I knmow how much your sisters mean to you , talk to her , sit her down and tell her whats on your mind , and the cheeck ‘’thats the reasson your gay because a male wont look at you anyway ‘’ eww so pissed of right know xxx talk on msn soon xxx

Answer #2

Dame your sister is mean! you should sit down with her and tell her how you feel and that what she is saying to you is hurting your feelings and that she should stop. Or just slap her haha JUST KIDDING! stand up to her and when she says these things in front of your mom insist that it is not true and that if she was your sister she would not say such things because families stick together. Ask her for support and ask her why she is saying these horrible things to you and to put herself in your shoes. I know that feeling unwanted is not a good feeling… trick… next time she says something mean laugh it off and make a joke out of it..it will make her mad because it shows her that its not digging into your skin… and cheer up the grass is greener on the other side : ) if you cant stand being around her when she says mean things block her out and sing a happy song in your head and walk away with a smile!! haha ; ) GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer #3

Girl I think that you should ignore her a do you because you really don’t have to listen my mom is the same way so you can just walk away are knock her out just playing you should have fun and just do you

Answer #4

The best way to pee someone of is to be so polite and nice it’ll make them vomit. If she is this much of a biatch to her own sister - her flesh and blood then she is obviously not a very nice person. Rise above her nasty comments don’t reply just smile blankly. As for being gay what year does she think shes living in - its personal choice she should respect you.

In one ear out the other. Your mam is probably saying nothing so a fight doesn’t kick off.

P.S. sorry about your brother - if you need to vent please feel free to fun mail me

Answer #5

Im sorry to hear about your brother and I’m sorry to hear what your sister is doing my advice is to hold up your anger and sadness and if she tells you all of does things just tell her that if she thinks thats the reason if something happened to you it will be her fault just make her feel what you feel then tell her what you said you didnt mean it is just that everytime she says all does things it makes you feel like no one someone that jsut wants to give up and you dont ,just stand up and let her know that even if she if she tells you what she feels and what she thinks none are true you are you and no one else so even if shes mad at you dont try to ignore her tell her what you feel inside deep down in your heart. Be yourself will telling her this, be who you really are, tell her what you think when shes talks to you like that. This happened to me with my older brother so I stand up and told him what I felt since then he and I are best friends and since that day I became more mature thats why my advice is stand up for your self and tell her dont give up

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