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okay well.

this is in regards to my fiance, and his family,

but there preddy much my family as well, and im involved.

long story short, chris (my fiance) has been living with his grandparts ever since he was about 12, before that he was living with his Dad.

His parents had gotten a divorse when he was 5.

his Dad beat his mom very badly and him.

anyways he got kicked out of his grandparents house because they thought since he lost weight he was doing “crack”

and he dyd his hair black and got peircing.

so he went to go live with his mom who lives about 45 minutes away form me.

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he stays with me on the weekends. and I’ve been working with his grandmother at the nursing home making good money! (and im trying to save up to help pay for chris’s court cost)

but now they dont want to have anything to do with him because he doesnt want to go live with his Dad.

I still want to work for her but I know it would just make things worse for chris.

his Dad took his phone and there are vids on it of us smoking pot.

he kept calling my house today threating to show it to my parents.

okay so the question is:

WHAT SHOULD CHRIS DO??

SHOULD HE JUST STOP TALKING TO HIS WHOLE FAMILY??

his dad said he would pay alll of his court cost ($743) if he moved back with him.

SHOULD I STILL WORK FOR HIS GRANDMA???

I need some advice badly

thank you! =]

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Answer #1

Yeah, he should live with his dad for a while, and get through him with his past..talk to him..Not for too long so you can see him..Meanwhile, tell his grandma, she’s cool and you need the job to help your mom or something! After his dad pay’s his court charge, he could go vivsit you!

Answer #2

I do think you should keep your job, helping his grandmother…you don’t want her mad at you too, and in this economy finding a job could be tough. It sucks for Chris, his dad should just give him the money because HE IS HIS DAD. Call the court and see about setting up payment arrangments. As for the video of ya’ll smoking pot…AT LEAST IT’S NOT CRACK…if he does show the video just admit ya’ll made a mistake and apologize to the family and move on. His dad sounds like a real prick…he should not have to bribe his son to come and live with him…thats horrible! I think Chris needs to talk to his grandma and whoever else is mad and explain why he does’nt want to live with his dad. This family drama stuff usually blows over with time, but be prepared…this will not be the last of the drama.

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