Am I expecting too much ??

Okay first off, you don’t respect yourself. You are letting these men in your life treat you like a doormat. The reason they always ask for those texts or to hookup is because they know you’ll give it to them. Why would they go through all the trouble of dating you and getting to know you when they can just get what they want (hooking up) for free? You are so young! You need to slow down. Have you ever even been to the gynecologist yet? You should get tested for STDs. Based on your other post, i know you have been having unprotected sex. Have you even considered the fact that you can get a disease that will stay with your forever (herpes) or a disease that is life threatening like AIDS? I don’t understand why you just bend over backwards for these guys to use and abuse you and get you pregnant and just let them hookup with you. Could you really see yourself as a mother? Caring for someone else entirely other than yourself? Because the only thing on your mind are these men who couldn’t care less about how you feel. Sorry this is so long, but I really just don’t get it. Where are your parents??? Don’t you have anyone to teach you any morals??? It’s your life, you can do what makes you happy, but it’s obvious that you aren’t happy….

Guys ask for that stuff because you’re easy, nothing to it. You’re easy so they just expect the dirty stuff and nothing else from you. Certainly nothing on an emotional level. Learn to respect yourself and then maybe, just maybe, some guy will too. So are you expecting too much? Yep, if you’re easy, that’s all boys will want from you.