don't try to change me I am fine

I get told that I should change all the time but I feel like I want to just curl up into a ball at times just because it would be the easiest thing to do. I want to know how to get my mind off of what other people say about me having to change. I am just happy the way I am. I mean that if I was a little thinner then yeah I would be a little happier but I am getting there. what do I do how do I get people to stop telling me to change what I look like? I should be happy with what I got right?

Answer #1

Screw everyone else. Everyone has insecurities of some sort. Many people laugh at others insecurities. NObodys perfect and those people make fun of whatevers not perfect about ya. Thats juswt people for ya. People suck. Don’t change for anyone but yourself.

Answer #2

Yes you should be happy with what you’ve got! People will always judge and criticize because they might feel insecure about themselves too. Just don’t let them get to your head, you’re fine!

Answer #3

u shouldn’t pay attention 2 dem haterz trying 2 bring you dwn…itz good 2 b happy wit who you r…if they say sumthin else 2 you b like…’thanx 4 your opinion but I dont need it, I luv myself how I am” and if they say sumthin else…punch em in ther face…then b like…ohhh you need 2 fix your face now!

Answer #4

being yourself is going to take all of the strength and confidence you can muster- that is what going against the “norm” is all about. if you were just another follower , and member of the “herd mentality” life would be easy because you would simply be a clone of everyone else, and there would be nothing for anyone to find wrong with you. FIND YOUR INNER STRENGTH, STAND YOUR GROUND, BE WHO YOU ARE (even though that is oftentimes not easy)- but remember nothing in life comes easy to those of us that defy conforming to others wishes, but our defiance makes us stronger and more able to handle lifes many pitfalls.

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