How do you get over someone you really liked but doesnt like you back?

Theres that guy at my school that i like SO much. lets call him Bob. Ive liked Bob since i was 4 years old. ive always thought that he liked me but i was never sure. recently, this girl thought it would be funny to tell Bob’s best friend that i liked Bob. then, of course, the best friend told Bob. he hasnt said anything to me about it yet but other people that have talked to him said that he doesnt want to be mean but he doesnt like me. Now i dont know what to do. I really like him and knowing that he doesnt like me is really hard. How do i get over him?

Answer #1

try finding someone else u think is cuter to forget about him… like me i have the same problem but i jst find someone else i like and it pulls me away from liking him :P hope this helps

Answer #2

Well first of, ‘other people’ are not reliable sources of information. So, first, find out for yourself. And if it is true, then you’ll learn to deal with it. Believe me, been there, done that. It’s not easy. I dont think there’s a trick to it. Something that I’ve learned is that it helps to stop doing things that remind you of the person. You spend time getting to know others, you start looking at other guys, and you will mend over time. It sucks. I know. But it will get better.

Answer #3

Like Ty said, people aren’t a very reliable source of info anf if I were you I would find out for myself. Who knows, you could be getting sad over nothing!!! But if it is true, I know that when this sort of thing happened to me (one of my ex’s broke up with me because he didn’t love me anymore and I was totally devastated) I mostly just kept myself occupied with video games, cleaning and going out with my friends so I didn’t have much time to think about him. (basically you can do anything that keeps you occupied, but like I wouldn’t suggest drawing or writing because that gives you a lot of time to think). Also, you could try to find someone else to like. Is there anyone who’s hotter/nicer/awesomer than Bob? In the end, you’ll just have to accept that he doesn’t like you and move on. Remember that there’s a lot of fish in the sea. :) I hope I helped a little!

Answer #4

*and, my bad!

Answer #5

I had the same problem but lately I found someone else who I like and I realized that I’ve been chasing afterthe first guy for way to long and it’s time to let go and move on. Don’t waste your time waiting

Answer #6

Try your hardest to stop thinking about him and your brain will some how forget about him and u shall find someone else!

Answer #7

thanks guys. its good to hear that other people have gone through this and moved on.

Answer #8

:) I hope things work out for you

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