do you think this is fair?

Unfortunately sometimes we grow apart from our friends. Our values and priorities sometimes don’t mesh as we get older. It is most definitely NOT fair that your friend would make you be friends with someone that does not treat you right. Have a talk with her, and if she still insists, I believe it might be time to move on and make new friends. Good luck, sweetie.

omg I just went thru the same thing as you believe me just put your foot down an say she isnt worth is

because a fren like that isnt worth anyones time

no I don’t think its fair.

but I also think you shouldn’t be friends with them.

If she’s talking behind your back and she’s mean, she doesnt sound like a very nice person and you probably deserve better than that. You also deserve better than someone who places conditions on your friendship. If you dont want to be in the company of someone then you shouldnt have to be.

okay but my “friend” has been my best friend since 4th grade, and we are and 7th now and I don’t want to lose her. And she is being really unfair, a jerk, standing up for only 1 person (not me of course) treating me like crap, saying that she is not my friend, talking about me, treating me like a back up friend, and saying that expressing my feelings is annoying, and she does’t believe anything I say! And her “best friend” is always calling me names and telling her that she’s about to cry (when I DON’T EVEN DO ANYTHING!) and she doesn’t say its annoying to her. She’s a butt now, and I don’t know what to do! (sniff sniff burst into tears)

find new friends, they both arent worth it!