How can I just get him to trust me?

Recently ive been feeling strange regarding my boyfriend. I dont know if i want to be with him anymore, dont get me wrong i love him loads but he aggravates me so so much!! He is so possessive and jealous of every little thing i do, i cant even go to my mums without 20 questions as to who was there? what did i say? And if i want to go out with friends, then thats a complete nightmare! He hates all my friends and calls them all hores and assumes that if they pull a lad im going to do the same! Which i wouldnt, cos im with him!! Ive had loads of conversations with him about this and told him he needs to trust me or im gonna leave, but nothing changes!! Please help, what should i do?

Answer #1

Dear why, You told him you would leave if he didn’t change. He didn’t change and you didn’t leave…why should he change? We cannot change others only ourselves…so try changing your lack of regard for yourself. Start thinking you deserve more, that you need more and soon you will see he isn’t the one for you and you will find Mr. Right who doesn’t need to change for you. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

The same as whats been said above me. If he isn’t prepared to change why should you stay with him and be miserable. Love and trust run hand in hand, and he doesn’t trust you because of his own insecurities. Is this really the sort of relationship you want to be in ??? he will aggrevate you more and more untill you cant stand anymore and leave. He will destroy this relationship. You can love someone but that doesn’t mean you have to stay with them. Time to move on i think.

Good luck

Answer #3

Yep. Leave. If there’s no trust, there’s no reason to continue…

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