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Am I just scared to go out with him?

so I had a crush on one of my friends who is 2 years older than me. he was in a play with me and I liked him. then, I found out that he liked me! all of a sudden, I dont like him anymore! weird huh? like I could never see us going out or anything, but I still get kinda nervous when I talk to him online. why is this? do I really liike him or am I just scared? if he asks me out should I say yes? idkkk!!!

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Answer #1

hmm thats happend 2 me before 2 like once he liks you dont have interest and e more well go with what you think like if you cnt see you dateing than mabey you shouldant but mabey you should just get to know himbetter and mabey ull b able to c you guys dateing

Answer #2

the thing is, he doesnt know that I like him, and he doesnt know that I know that he likes me (that I know of) and I’ve been talking to him, and I keep finding more and more things in common with us so I know its not that. also, its not like we talk so much, actually we dont talk very much in person, but long chats online so it cant really be that. I keep trying to picture what I’d even say to him if he asked me out and I have no idea!!!

Answer #3

all of a sudden, I dont like him anymore! weird huh?

Maybe you just got to know him better since you two have decided you liked each other and that’s why you couldn’t see yourself with him anymore. Maybe he’s not interested in the things you thought he was, or maybe spending too much time with him has made you feel smothered. You probably shouldn’t go out with him, according to the statement above, instead, try only sending him that “friend” vibe instead of the “I like you” one that you have been giving him and he should get the hint and maybe that will keep him from asking you out, which would be awkward for you, since you don’t like him now! Good luck!

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