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How do i make the decision of whether to go out with the guy i love, but i'm too scared what will happen?

I really like a guy i go to school with and we went to the movies last night (so cliche) and like, it was so nice, but i don’t know if i want to go out with him, i’m scared what happened with my ex will happen again, and i’m afraid that if i say that to him he’ll take it the wrong way :l i just want to know if this is the right thing to do… thanks.

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Answer #1

you should definitely go out with the boy whom you love,this is only the way to know him better and to pass time with him.okay,now don’t be scared because he is not going to eat you at all if you do anything..if you feel you are going to embarrass yourself,so no.its not going to happen if you will be confident and BE YOURSELF.don’t be fake and i am sure everything will go on smoothly.i am sure you are not going to ask him awkward questions..wish you luck!

Answer #2

aw thankyou (: its more im scared he’ll hurt me, and other stuff, like what my ex did, its hard to trust him i think :l

Answer #3

dont tell him about ex and don’t be scared,you are going to start a new relationship and you have to take things differently.

Answer #4

he already knew about my ex, because we were like bestfriends before we had like a thing like this, i’ll try :S

Answer #5

Your fear that history will repeat itself is natural…the only way to get over that fear is to face it, so go ahead and go out with this guy, and learn to have fun with a new person. For the time being, tho…don’t tell him that your afraid things will go the same route as with your ex.

Answer #6

Thankyou, i won’t tell him i’m scared and i really believe he won’t hurt me, it’s just that deeper feeling :l

Answer #7

Go out with him!!! If you really love him, then you should be willing to take the risk to go out with him. We all make sacrifices for love..

Answer #8

yeah we do i suppose, thanks for your help, much appreciated :) just a little scared i am

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