We can't find the internet
Attempting to reconnect
Something went wrong!
Hang in there while we get back on track
How do I disipline 8 year old children?
How do I disipline 8 year old children that are not mind? ie screaming and yelling they refuse to go to school.
OK so you should not give up in front of him … Take away from him a favourite object everytime when he is doing something badf..for every good thing give it back… At this age a children can be changed, but its all about you - if you know how to control the situation… dont give him the possibility of saying no… for everytime when you let him to , he will get more use with you accepting that …
Be very patient with them for one thing. No screaming or yelling back. Kneel down on their level and tell them…’If you do not stop (yelling, or whatever) you will get your (favorite possession) taken away. And if whatever it is does not stop, then take the item away. EVERY single time it is done. Things will not change over night but after a while the child will realize that you mean business. Just remember to an 8 year old, time is a lot longer to them than for us. So if you take something away, do it for a reasonable amount of time. Like if you take their television, then only do it for 2 hours or until they stop whatever it is they are doing. Also at 8 years old the child should really want to go to school. Are their anger issues to consider? Talk to the counselor at school and let them know you are concerned, they will help. Good luck. I went through 4 of them I know it is hard.
well if you had ever wached super nannie they use “the notty spot” and it works phicologicaly you put them on the floor in the corner for as manny minuts as how old they are ex 8 years old 8 minuts.
just remember patience’s that is important don’t do something that you might regret later I try time out in conner 1 min per age if he is 8 mins in conner maybe even parenting class
You’ve had some good advice about not shouting at them, and taking away a priviledge or giving them time out. It’s hard not to shout but if you can stay calm (after all, you’re the adult!) then you remain in control of the situation and they don’t have an excuse to get angry with you.
Some time when they’re calm (not straight away after an ‘episode’), you need to talk to them and ask them: ‘Why are you trying to stay off school at the moment?’ Maybe there’s a problem at school you could help them with. They still have to go to school, but if there is a real problem maybe they can’t think it through properly when they’re angry, and need some quiet time to talk it though with you later.
The other thing to do is reassure them that you love them and you understand that it can be really hard to do the things we dislike. Tell them you have to do difficult things too, e.g. ‘I quite often wish I could stay in bed instead of getting you ready for school/going to work/doing the housework etc, but I get on with it because I know I have to’. Kids need to learn that you ‘get on with things because you have to’ in life, and that adults do that too - it’s not something we force on kids alone. If your kids know you love them and support them in doing something they have to, then it makes things a bit better.
Best wishes…
um it’s not bad if you whip him or anything I mean parents are allowed to do things like that. but if he refuses to go to school convince him to, and like every week or something give him a SMALL reward. That way it would be more fun (I guess) for him.
put them in time out
-
Free things to do with my 8 year old nephew? - 2 Answers
So, my nephew has come for the weekend to visit, and we don't know what to do.. I'm 14, and he's 8.. I want to do something t...
-
what is average wrist size for two year old girl? - 1 Answers
measuring the wrist size of the average 2 year old girl, what is the size in inches?
-
Some ways 2 make an 8 year old fall asleep - 5 Answers
I need some ways 2 make an 8 year old fall asleep before around 3 oclock 2day. I dont want 2 use any tpye of medicines either...
-
how to teach a 3 year old to write a 2 - 2 Answers
I need help and suggestions on how to teach a 3 year old boy to write a 2. Please help!
-
How much good does a 1-year-old need daily? - 1 Answers
How much food does a one year old baby need in a day along with milk? My baby is very small for his age though I keep feeding...
-
What do I need to babysit two children under 5yrs old? - 1 Answers
My first time babysitting and don't know what I need to babysit a 2 month old and a 4 year old. Help!
-
A birthday for a one year old boy ? - 2 Answers
Mu cosine has a very cute baby boy and he will be one year old in 2 days , do you have any idea what to get him /?
-
Can I give my one year old baby Nido powder milk? - 2 Answers
Hi I was wondering since my old year old baby was recetly started on Fresh Gallon milk..She gets Constipated when I give her ...
-
Is Tanner Stage 2 normal for a 13 year old? - 3 Answers
For those of you who know what I'm talking about, is Tanner Stage II for puberty normal for a 13 year old girl?
-
Can a 16-year-old legally spend the weekend alone? - 2 Answers
Is it legal for a 16.5 year old in New Jersey to stay in the house without parental supervision for 2 days?
Kids
Parenting, Education, Health and Wellness
Top Birthday Gifts for 1 Year...
birthday gifts for 1 year olds
Riley Crossing Child Care
Preschool, Daycare
My Shop
Toys, Education, Childcare
peyari.com
குழப்பம் பரவு, முழுநிலை பெயர்கள், குழப்பம் பரவு
Online Toys Australia
Toys, Children's Toys, Toy Store