Did he just lose interest?

A couple years ago their was this guy I liked. We just had some fun together sometimes… kissing and me giving him a blowjob was the extent of it. I did get emotionally invested in him though as I found it hard back then to seperate our physical time from the undeniable feelings I was starting to feel for him. It took awhile… but I finally started not to think about him anymore… that was until a couple weeks ago when I ran into him at a store! I actually went and talked to him and gave him a hug. He was saying that we should hang out this summer and it would be good… I’m like yeh totally not thinking. I didn’t really have his number anymore so I msn’ed him a week later… I debated whether to contact him but I decided to just take that initiative. I said in the offline msn msg that it was nice to run into him and that we should get together sometime. Next time when he saw me online he said he was into getting together and for me to just tell him my availability. But that was like 2-3 weeks ago and he hasn’t sent me a msg since. What’s the deal? I mean I just wanted to get together and see where it led… maybe a fling, maybe not.. but what guy doesn’t jump at that opportunity when a girl is practically inviting him by taking the initiative to make contact? It just bothers me and I’m lonely, horny, and agitated because of this situation. I was doing fine until I saw him again the store and just seeing him again brought up so many memories of him in the past and is making me fall for him again.

Answer #1

don’t feel bad that he isn’t responding to you. he probably isn’t looking for the same thing in the relationship as you are. maybe he is just wanting to be friends and not friends with benefits. play it off as if your cool with him being just friends. if you guys hang out for awhile, then he might develope feelings that your looking for. try not to force it. so maybe try going back to basics and having him as just a friend and seeing where that goes. you never know, it might turn out the way you want it to!

Answer #2

If you expect him to jump at the chance for some “fun”, i suggest you accept the fact that he may just use you for just that. Sounds like it was “the moment”. He saw you, and said, “we should hang out this summer”, but i think we all say stuff like that. More time than none, people never seem to follow through on what they say! And if he did mean it, and if he even cared about you in the least, he would have contacted you!!

Answer #3

this guy sounds like hes just out for fun. YOU go out and meet new people!

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