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Desperate to not lose her

ok so my girl friend wants to join the navy when she graduates. I dont want her to cause I feel like there is a clock on the wall and the time ticks down till we are over and I cant live that. I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. I just lost my virginity to her last week and all my life I told myself I would wait till I got married and it was with the girl I would spend the rest of my life with and well… I thuoght she was it and is. so now I feel like I am temparary and I feel like crap. I would give up my dreams of being a professional fighter in less than a second if she asked me but I think if I asked her she would still go. I dont think its right of me to as kher not to follow her dreams either… I dont know how to stop feeling like this. I am scared of losing her… deathly afraid she is the best thing that ever happened to me. I would join with her in a hearbeat but the odds of us being together suck. if she goes then I will never see her again for the most part… I need Help!!!

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Answer #1

I agree with the talking to her about it… I would ask her not to join… maybe just voice your concerns and where you see the relationship going in the future. But most importantly tell her you will support whatever she picks to do…good luck and I hope it work out so your both happy.

Answer #2

You need to let her know how you feel

There’s nothing we can do to stop her from joining, but maybe she’s just waiting for a signal from you to see if the decision she’s making is the right one

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