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I'm really depressed I dont know what to do

no friends,no social life outside of school, does not fit in{family or school} I feel im the weirdest compare to the rest of my family, I’m really depress,I feel like I dont want to live anymore,I dont know what to do:( if anyone ever felt the way I’m feeling pls help me or just give me advice on what to do

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Answer #1

Well it might not help to hear that a lot of people feel that way, especially as teenagers, but it’s true. I did, still do sometimes…

Some people have a harder time making friends than others, and I’m not saying this will ever change (you may always have a harder time than some people) but things do get better once you graduate highschool. You’re not just surrounded by thousands of people who you have nothing in common with. If you’re in college or working it is easier to meet people who you have more in common with and make friends.

You may want to join a club, or an activity, volunteer somewhere… You may not make friends, but it will give you something to do, surrounded by usually nice people… Also try and talk to some new people. Say hi, ask a question. Whatever. Try and join in on a conversation sometime. Also mid-semester isnt the best time, but the next semester, try sitting next to someone you dont know and just say hi. Try asking someone if they want to study together sometime. Make casual conversation. Once you get to the stage where you say hi to someone on a regular basis, ask for weekend plans. Maybe suggest doing something. Talk about movies that have come out, if they say they want to go see it, suggest going together… (even if you dont particularly want to see it, just go…)

You might want to talk to your school councellor about being depressed. Just know this though, it does get better. No matter how much life can suck, even for years, it eventually can get better.

Answer #2

sweetheart it is okay to be depressed because I do most of the time, sometimes crying helps. it helps you relax and let all that stress and anger out. start writing down your plans for your future. Their not a such thing as weird, it’s only being different, and theirs definitly nothing wrong with that.

Answer #3

I agree with b_varg lol. HEy dont worry I feel the same way. Try reading the bible, it has many many comforting words for the depressed ones.

Answer #4

The only weird person is the one who see others weird, The enemy of your soul wants you to believe that you have no purpose so that you can become all those things you fear becoming, remember God is never through with you. He always has a plane for your life. You feeling what you’re feeling because you choose to feel that way. Write down positive thing that you like about you, and stop focusing on what others thinks. you lack self-confidence and other around you see it also. Remember you are no mistake God doesn’t make mistake. your friend kat.

Answer #5

Hey man, I am really depressed right now too. I’m 14, and my social life sucks, and I live in the middle of the country with no civilization around. My parents and I fight all the time, and it never stops. I’m already on meds for bipolar and I have been for almost a year and I don’t feel any better. I can’t sleep at night. I get good exercise(my parents make me), and plenty of time outside. I can’t stand living like this anymore. I’m not sure how this is an answer to your question other than that you arnt alone in your depression.

Answer #6

I feel the sam way it happens try reading the bible and praying

Answer #7

Sunshine or tanning helps my depression.

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