Dealing with a married man

He is playing you, it won’t hurt him so bad if you leave him. He may cry but that is just a ploy, anyone can fake cry. Think of it this way, would you ever date a guy that was eight years younger than you? An eleven year old boy? I don’t think you would, normal people would not. People develop very quickly until they are about thirty, so until people are both out of their thirties it really is a bit of a problem. Girls develp faster mentally and physically, but not that much faster. An eleven year old girl with a nineteen year old guy? He may seem like he really loves you and act like he really loves you and tell you that he really does love you, but all guys will do this. If all guys did not do this then girls would never ever get duped. They’d be like “Oh hells no I’m not staying with you because you obviously don’t love me!” and that would be the end. Some teenage guys don’t do it but they’re either really honest or they just haven’t caght on yet. By the time they’re twenty seven, they will no every secret there is to opening a girl’s heart and her legs. If he will not divorce his wife he does not love you. he does not love her obviously but this just implies that he is not a lovingcaring or responsible man. Perhaps you should talk to the wife and get her side of things? Maybe she didn’t really marry him for money and he just fed you that so you’d keep with him. It worked didn’t it? He won’t divorce because he wants to keep the money that she’ll get, what exactly entitles her to this money? She does have to get the money through judge and jury in a court of law, so if he’s afraid of losing it then obviously he has done something that can be justified to take all his money. Perhaps this is not his first attempt at adultry? Perhaps he has hit her? You’ve never been around him so much he could have a temper. Either way though, the money is more important to him than you, which means you should let him keep the money and let yourself go along your way and find someone who wants only you above all other things. To make it final block his number so that he can’t text you more sob stories convincing you that he’s the one. Good luck Denise, if you need any more help or advice you can funmail me

Brian D.