How can you fall for a married man?

I met this man about 8 months ago we talked a lot and he told me that he and his wife were getting divorced, we talk everyday and when we see eachother it is like we are the only 2 people in the world. I have never in my life felt this way about anyone the problem is we are both un happily married… Today he said he has feelings for me what do I do?

Answer #1

Well, you can’t do anything until you’re both divorced or seperated. At least you shouldn’t.

If you do both decide that divorce is the way to go (take into consideration your financial situation, where you’ll both live, the effect on the kids), then you might want to start a slow (and discreet) relationship.

Either way, make sure he’s worth it. Really and truly worth it, and and that this is more than just him wanting an escape from his wife. It would be a huge lifestyle change to begin a relationship with this man.

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