How do I deal with this girl who is spreading bullsh*t about me?

She Has Self Esteem Issues And Needs To Insult People To Feel Important.Her Head Is Messed Up.Just Say I Feel Sorry For You ..You Have Mental Problems And You Irritate Me Because You Hate Yourself.. If You Enjoy Lying About Me.. Then Karma Will Get To You

Haha I love it! Thanks Hun. I’ll definately be saying that. ;-)

Cookielove, I’m a little confused. The one reason you give for not liking her is that she “takes everything the wrong way,” but you don’t give any examples of her doing that. Except for the obnoxious rumor, everything you say about her seems to be about her being excluded and feeling badly about that. Is it possible that she’d act more normal and you could get along ok with her (I don’t mean like close friends, just no drama) if y’all let included her in some of your activities? The way you describe the situation, I feel badly for her too - though that obviously doesn’t excuse her spreading false rumors about you.

Confront her about it!

I don’t like her for a number of personal reasons. It’s really hard to describe but she is a very difficult person to get along with. She is very rude too. She swears at our parents and I always have to say something. Yeah I feel sorry for her too. But I welcomed her and we were getting along fine. That’s until she started telling others about what we talk about. She has always been a “big mouth”. Now to go as far as telling people I’m engaged… that’s a little to much.

She’s always starting these stupid little fights too. Her mother and I don’t get along either because she thinks my family isn’t as good as hers. She’s even said it before. This girl is very much like her mother. She is self-centered and she always starts picking on people for the dumbest thing. She orders people around as though we are her slaves. I don’t know what goes on behind doors but I can understand it’s something she inherited from her mother. I was nice to her. But she likes to twist things. Being nice does no good. I’d thought I’d help her. Maybe I wasn’t making her feel more welcomed. But when she started talking again I got mad and started ignoring her. I’m so sorry for all this drama. But thanks for answering. Maybe you can see the situation from a better view.

What you do is just imagine her fat and pregnant, living in a trailer park when she gets older, bitches like that usually end up that way.

Sorry I didn’t see your replies to my comment sooner, Cookielove. The way I see it, you each want something from the other. She basically wants you to accept and include her; you basically want her to act respectfully toward you and your parents. If you keep the focus of what your asking from her on that one thing (which covers your whole list of complaints about rudeness, spreading true or false gossip, picking on people, picking fights, and bossing people around), you might be able to negotiate with her: “You want to be invited? Ok, but then I want something from you in return…” Worth a try?

say what goes around comes around. KARAMA is a BITCH:) don’t say anything that will trigger her to escalate the the problem.maybe she wants to be ur friend in a number of odd reasons..

Will do. Thanks a million.