Dating Vs (Christian) Courtship

Okay, I answered this question the other day, but I’ll answer again.

Most people use the term ‘courting’ instead of ‘dating’ to show that the relationship they have with someone is not a sexual one. Today’s understanding of dating seems to be ‘we’re having sex’. I personally think it’s silly, because I’ve said I’m dating someone, and haven’t been sexually active with them. It seems kinda ridiculous that some people are so uptight about other people’s assumptions.

Is there anyone who is/intends to partake in the act of courtship (Christian) as opposed to dating? If so, can you tell me why, what is so different about it to you? Also could you tell me what you think is so wrong about dating?

Dating as a term can mean different things to different people. Mainly, it is seen as a way of spending time with someone you’re interested in and attracted to. It’s mostly for having a fun time and to see if it can become a longer relationship.However, in our day and age, in many instances it has gone way beyond that.Now it’s almost a sport to rack up dates, be seen as popular, and even to have sex without any plans for marriage. This is causing a lot of hurt and future failure for people in the”love” department. Courtship on the other hand, usually reflects that the person wants to find God’s choice for a mate by first praying and seeking God’s direction. It assumes the person doesn’t just want to try a bunch of different dates, but rather relies on guidance and wisdom from God.This all implies that the two people involved are seriously considering each other for marriage, and also want to refrain from a sexual or overly emotional relationship until they say “I Do”.

Courtship is like going steady with marriage in mind. . . Dating is more casual