Is my Mom too strict?

I only wanted to get pregnant so she would kick me out so I could be with him.

she treats him with no respect and he does nothing to her.

I dont do things to make her not trust me.

well I can relate to your situation very easily. Its my dad that is like this though. I have been dating him for over a year now and my dad still hasnt really accepted him. I think it is really that she is havin a hard time with you growing up. All parents want their kids to stay little forever. I know when I was with him for about 3 months it was pretty much h*ll. Just stick it out and dont give her any reason to not trust you with him. I say tell her how you feel and tell her you know she doesnt want you to grow up but it’s going to happen and you have to do things on your own and she has to give you a little space. Make sure she knows that she can trust you.

Your mother just wants the best for you and of corse shes not ganna like any of the boy friends you have untill your older and yes it is a little on fair but you have to under stand whats going threw her head. Shes probley really scared that your ganna become a young mother. I think if you want her to trust you , you should go on birth contol . My father at 13 told me right to my face that he is never ganna like any of my boy friends so I should just not bother having any. That dident last I had my frist child at 17 :( not fun at all . Please try to be as nice and understanding to your mother and be good. Always use condoms, and respect your self respect your slef. Yours truly, Demika ray

Dear thegurl05, Well from you other question…you want to get pregnant with this guy…no wonder you mother is upset…I’d be very upset to. You are too young to get pregnant and with someone you have only been with for 3 months? She is not being unreasonable but you sure are. Sue…good luck