Cousin gone crazy!

call Dr. Phil.. haha. It sounds like your cousin is being a normal teenager and rebeling. What concerns me is (from what you describe) her lack of concern for her own body. Counciling and some positive adult influences would help.

The above advice while noble and good in theory won’t work. Your cousin is going to have to learn the hard way like most people. She sounds very stubborn. Some people just can’t listen learn and take good advice. Trying to help her will amount to banging your head against a brick wall in my opinion. It will get neither her nor you anywhere and just cause resentments. So my advice is to give up, it’s called tough love. Let go and let God, someday maybe ten years down the road she’ll look back and see what stupid choices she made. It’s just the way some people are. Good luck.

well she is rebelling I dont think a normal teenager would go out and do these sorts of things… they could have been influenced by freinds, internet,tv, the music shows and music she listens to ect. because people are influenced by different things that they take bits and peices of that make up who they are. it sound like shes into all the wrong sorts of things. yes some positive influences could help, also have a look at the what she looks at, listens to like internet and music wise. you need to , or get someone who will, explain what shes doing to herself and her body, and explain that if she keeps this up how bad off shell be later on in life.