Excitement gone?

I love my boyfriend very much, but we’ve been dating for 2 years now and it feels like the excitement is gone from our relationship. We always do the same stuff and that excited feeling is completely gone. Its not a bad thing, I love our relationship. But I wish that on special occasions like our anniversaries and holidays, it felt different than just any other day. What are some ways to get that feeling back on special occasions? (Not just sexual ways, please.)

Answer #1

wow well im the same way ha ha but what if you plan something new… like instead of going where you always go for the holidays plan a new routine…or for your anniversary surprise him with new stuff

Answer #2

Well, no offence but after the first year of a relation ship you got to try new things sexual wise 2. Try getting other couples to hang out, Go to other towns and explore what they have. Get some sweet board games for a group of people or maybe just for you 2. Try new things in bed 4 example diff positions, go to a sex store and get lubes or videos. They even have like pleasure packs all walmart with a variety of different things, such as lubs, condoms with different fellings and a vibrating ring. But when you do find new things don’t do them all at once you got to space it out over time. Well hope I helped if you need any more ideas let me know ill try and think of some.

Answer #3

the same thing happened to me. my ex boyfriend and I dated for a year and a half and after a while it was the same thing. we discussed it and we decided to just do random crazy fun things once a month surprisingly. it was so much fun waitin gon one of us to think of a crazy idea and alternated months. our relationship was stronger after that and I know it really helped. good luck:)

Answer #4

do you have like parks or stuff like that? go on a picnic take his favorite food and play some volleyball or baseball or soccer that is fun. or is he a challenging person? if so how about you place video games…they are good for any age trust me. its fun because if he is good at it he can show you how to play and that is so sweet. have you guys washed a car together? that is fun too. because you get all wet but you get the job done. I dont know my boyfriend is always challenging me in stuff so its pretty fun.

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