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He says he dont want to get married but wants kids with me and refers to his parents as my inlaws whats he want? I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months now and 6 months pregnant by him I’ve known him for 10 years now and dating before in the past hes always talkin to me about the future and says he wants more kids after this one is born I see myself being with him in the future but he says hes never getting married but refers to his parent and family as my inlaws im so cunfused and dont know if im wasting my time help

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Answer #1

he sounds like he doesnt want to have that responsability..and that if one day (im not sayin its going to happen) he decides to start talkin to someone else he is somewhat free to do so..im not sure but I would find someone who will treat me how much im worth..and every chick is worth a million..inother words a lot! so if you know you can find better go for it..but if this is the guy you really want to b with, one who wont want to assume the responsability of supporting you now that your having his kid, the one who doesnt want to stay to one chick..bc if he doesnt want to get married its probablyfor that reason..why else? I dont want to sound offensive..im just sayin another point of view..but if thats the kind of guy you want to stick with then do so..I hope I helped in clearing up your mind a bit!

Answer #2

After you have this baby and your hormones level out, sit down with him and have an honest conversation with him. Tell him how much it would mean to you to be married. Marraige provides a more secure environment for children. If I were in your shoes, I would insist on marraige before allowing myself to mother another one of his children. He is probably just scared.

Answer #3

no

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