How to tell him I don't know what to do?

he’s not getting more serious about the RELATIONSHIP, he’s just SERIOUSLY wants to get laid. i say get out of this situation before you’re in too deep.

The first thing you need to do is learn the difference between a choice and a decision. A choice is something you can go back and change, like picking the wrong color shirt or shoes. The root of the word “ decision “ is ‘cide’, which means “to kill”; hence, pesticide, homocide and insecticide. When you make a decision you have “killed” the other option or options. Having sex is a decision not a choice. Once you do have sex you will never be a virgin again. Having a baby is a decision not a choice. Getting married is a decision not a choice. Making choices can be done whimsically because their consequences are minimal. Decisions are life altering, some more so than others and require careful consideration. A good rule of thumb about decisions is “when in doubt, don’t”.

He just wants sex. Physical pleasure. If he’s your age (16) and is very expierienced, then . . .. Well, I think that speaks for itself. And also it isn’t about making him happy. Don’t do sexual things with him just because you want him to be happy. And for the fact that you ssound scared I would say that you’re not ready to do anything anyway. And also, if you need to come on the internet for advice, not a good thing. Just take your time. And if he tries to pressure you into anything, kick him where it REALLY hurts.

Its not about making him HAPPY. Its about you feeling comfortable and doing what you feel like doing at that time. The thing is… if you are comfortable and in a situation you are happy about0 things will happen for themselves. But a relationship is not all about being sexual.. You need to make sure that his sudden turn of getting more serious sexually is not pressuring you into feeling like you have to do something for him… because YOU DONT.

Dont let a guys sexual side pressure you into doing something you dont want to do, or do something you are not comfortable with doing yet.

Honestly, our bodies are hardwired to “know” what to do. Do you remember your first kiss? Did you just completely mess up and swallow your partners nose in the process?…NO. Thus, it is my opinion that you should be able to do whatever “feels right” as long as you feel comfortable with yourself.

Just remember this, SEX “feels” goood. And most guys will show you how much they love you in this way. Dont just take advice from women, you risk getting extremely biased information if you only rely on those responses.