Clueless shy guy

If it is your girl fisrt time having sex should there be fourplay? Do girls like being fingered or get oral sex when there a virgin? Can any of you girls answer this one, im a clueless shy guy and I need help, my girl has a little more expirence than me!

Answer #1

There should always be foreplay…foreplay includes, before even touching one another just flirting around the idea is considered foreplay. Kissing and making out. Try to get her soaked before even undressing her. Try to touch/kiss/fondle every part of her body before even entering her. I stay away from fingering most of the time and just do oral. Fingering loosens the girl up and I’d rather it be really tight lol. Try not to be nervous because that will just take away from the mood. Even if you don’t know what you’re doing just act ‘encouraged’ to do it and she’ll either correct you or tell you to move on to something else.

Massaging is always a good way to start foreplay. Every woman likes to be relaxed. Also it doesn’t make them feel ‘slutty’ if they are just getting an innocent massage.

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