Why do people get cancer

Three weeks!!! When did you find out or what type of Cancer. I had cancer 10 years ago but mine responded very well to treatment. There are a lot of different cancers some deadly and some very curable.

Is he still drinking and having the same verbal abuse toward you even after knowing about it? Is he treating you better? After you talk to him and everything you should go and get some counseling. I think all the falling in love or all this crushes you are getting on different boys is because you are filling the void of your father not giving you the attention that you needed.

Very dangerous as you will always be looking to fill that void and end up later in life with another guy that will more likely will resemble your dad in the way that he treated you.

Do you have siblings and where is your mom in all of this?

first of all, I am so sorry to hear about your father. second of all, cancer is caused when you dont have enough blood cells to fight of infection. (or something like that, I know it is something to do with blood cells) thirdly, I think you should let your dad know that you love him, and that your there for him. stay as positive as you can, but I know it will be hard. When my grandmother got sick, I spent a whole month sitting with her in the hospital, and it was the hardest thing I ever did, but at least she knew I was there, sometimes thats all people need, is to know that someone loves them.

Keep him in your prayers and make him comfortable - make some memories - might help to sit down and put everything you’d like him to know before it’s too late…you and he will be in my thoughts and prayers - I hope he talks to a Minister to ensure he’s ready.

I dont know the kind of cancer. he drinks and smokes. I LOVE HIM!!! I live with my mom but I go over their a lot because my best friend live by him like 2 house down, and I dont tell her this stuff because she will never let me see him again . I know he dont mean half the stuff he says but it bugs me some time. and he has kidney problom thats why he can tack chemo,

I think the only thing to say to him is to think positive, it works even in cancer… faith can move mountains… im sorry to hear about your dad..

Let him know you LOVE him so much. Talk about the good times you’ve both had. Just be there with him. Show him you care. I’m really sorry to hear about your dad! I really am. Funmail me if you need anything.