Can we stay together if we hardly talk?

So, this is the basic foundation of any relationship no matter what. Trust and communication.

First off there has to be some semblance of trust in a relationship. If not then it will never work and one person will always question the other about everything if there is no trust.

Secondly, communication. That can come in all forms. Physical touching. Verbally talking. Being quiet and making little jokes. If you’re shy then that is something that is difficult to overcome. It is. I used to be shy now I talk to everyone. I just had to realize that I was missing out in life by being so scared to talk to people.

If you really do want this relationship to work but can’t muster the courage to verbally express yourself, maybe you should write him a note or a letter and explain why it is so difficult for you to talk to him. Just make sure he knows it is and has nothing o do with him but because of him you want to be more open and talk to him more you just don’t know how to.

And, if you can’t seem to figure out a way to talk to him then you really do need to find another way of cumminication with him or the relationship will die off and you two will drift apart.